Every men`s life is determine by his decisions. You make a good one you've made a better future for yourself but you make a bad one and you're screwed. Real life and high school are two very different things you can make as many mistakes as you want in high school but when it comes to life you don't have the privilege or the luxury to make mistakes like that.... If you think what you see is what you get, then do me a favor and slap the fuck out of yourself back to reality. Life's a bitch, wake up and smell it. Face reality, do what you have to do to get by. Take matters in to your own hands, have a firm grip of your life cause you are not a kid anymore. GROW UP. Reason out your actions cause one day its gonna turnaround and fuck you right in the ass and all you can do is say "dude you were right man" or i could say " i told you so." things change don't be too sure to judge. Don't do something cause you want her to be happy, her to be secure do it cause you want both of you to be happy and secure for the wider picture. Don't go doing something stupid and later on regret it... Life bites and it bites hard. I know cause I fucking felt it. So take my advice, it may not be much but just be smart with the decisions that you`re making because that's how every men`s life is determined.